THANKS BILLY GRAHAM

billy Graham has a syndicated advice column much like Dear Abby or Savage Love. The Seattle PI carries it on their website and while reading some of the columns, I came to an answer that I agreed with surprisingly enough.

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DEAR DR. GRAHAM: Our 17-year-old daughter says she doesn’t believe in God anymore, and now she even refuses to go to church with us. When we try to talk with her about it we just end up in an argument. What can we do? — Mrs. S.McD.

DEAR MRS. S.McD.: The most important thing you can do is to pray for her — because only God can overcome her spiritual resistance and draw her back to Himself. Jesus said, “No one can come to me unless the Father who sent me draws him” (John 6:44).

But you also can let her know you that love her, despite your differences — and by doing so, you’ll be showing her that God loves her also. Don’t let your discussions degenerate into arguments; this will only make her more determined to keep her position. In other words, don’t let this become a test of wills between you — your will battling against her will — because almost the last thing she wants to do right now is admit she is wrong. The Bible says, “A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger” (Proverbs 15:1).

Let me encourage you also to ask her why she has come to this conclusion. Has someone influenced her? Has she been reading one of the recent books on atheism? Atheism has become something of a fad in recent years, and this may have influenced her.

But the real reason, I suspect, is that she wants to run her own life — and that’s far easier to do if you push God out of your life. Help her realize what she’s doing, and then warn her of the dangers. Above all, urge her to look at Christ, for He alone came “to bring you to God” (1 Peter 3:18).

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I fully support christian parents praying for their children. I don’t think its the most important thing they can do but it is helpful for free thinking teenagers. With their parents trusting God through prayer to bring their kids back to Christ, the parents feel they are doing their part and in turn keeps the religious parents off the kids back.

As a parent its always important to love your child but you shouldn’t do it as a way to win them back to Christ. Love your kids without any strings attached. there should be ZERO ulterior motives for loving your child as being their parent is enough.

Discussing the childrens lack of faith is great advice as the parent might learn a thing or two, depending on how smart the kid is.

The last part of the answer is my favorite because I could have written that same answer word for word. “…she wants to run her own life — and that’s far easier to do if you push God out of your life. Help her realize what she’s doing”.